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Demo Masochist Description & Requirements

We use a demo masochist for our Sensual Sadistic Message Intensive workshop. The pain is intense, and so is the pleasure! If that sounds exciting, read on!

What will this experience be like for the demo masochist?

Intense! All of the workshop participants will watch you experience significant hand-applied pain as well as sensual massage. The method of the workshop has participants watching a certain stroke or technique being demonstrated, then working with a partner to try it themselves. That process will be repeated throughout the workshop.


The demo role continues throughout the workshop, so your participation will be limited to being the demo bottom. We promise to make it a good experience for you!


TouchDeep is the primary demonstrator. HeartBound will also do some of the demonstrating. We will only be using hands and arms on you. No toys or tools, and certainly no genital contact. This is not a genitorture workshop. Both HeartBound and I will be fully dressed at all times.


This is an intimate, skin-to-skin experience. We’d like you to just wear a pair of thong panties.

It’s important that you be…

• a confirmed masochist comfortable with deep pain.

• comfortable and confident being mostly naked in front of a class.

• absolutely available for the scheduled workshop time.

• in integrity with your partner(s) around being a demo bottom for us.

• completely comfortable with sensual and deep-tissue therapeutic massage.

• available to meet at a mutually agreed upon time beforehand for a pre-workshop negotiation and mini-rehearsal.

• able to communicate comfortably and in the moment using standard safe words of yellow and red.

• able to articulate your experience in front of a class if and when called upon to do so.

• in generally good health and without significant skin issues.

• not extremely or moderately ticklish.

• if you’re a smoker, able to abstain for several hours prior to the workshop.

• at complete ease about doing this. Nobody but you should be making the choice to demo for us.


If you meet all of the qualifications above and are interested in being our demo masochist, we look forward to hearing from you! Fill on the contact form on the main page to let us know that you're interested.

We'll be happy to answer your questions. We will also want to have a three-way Skype or FaceTime conversation with you a week or so before the workshop.

We adhere to the Demo Bottom’s Bill of Rights that were developed by Sarah Sloane and Tristan Taormino.