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Demo bottom/Submissive Description & Requirements for delicious deprivation

We use a demo bottom/submissive for our Delicious Deprivation class. Being our demo bottom/submissive is challenging and intense. If that sounds exciting, read on!

Here's the class description…

Sensory deprivation is hot and powerful! This hands-on workshop is an excursion into using deprivation of sight, hearing, speech, and touch to create deep, intense experiences. We’ll go from beginning to advanced level with tools and techniques that Integrate into all aspects of kink. There are lots of opportunities throughout the workshop to get actual experience.


No partner required to attend.


No late admission.

What will this experience be like for the Demo Bottom/Submissive?

Intense! All of the class participants will watch you experience varying levels of sensory deprivation, from light to deep. The method of the class has participants watching an experience being demonstrated, hearing TouchDeep and HeartBound talk about the experience, then engaging in guided discussion about it, which will include questions to you about your part of the experience. They will also be blindfolding and gagging themselves for hands-on experience.

TouchDeep and HeartBound will both be involved with demonstrations with you in the class. They’ll be starting the class with you on display, with your hands and arms in bondage and you wearing a blindfold, gag, and ear plugs. Through the course of the class they’ll be using you to demonstrate each of those items separately, often with several variations (i.e. bit gag, ball gag, Jennings gag, etc.) As they move through the class, they’ll combine devices, and show how sensory deprivation can be combined with other forms of BDSM play.

TouchDeep and HeartBound may ask you to kneel, wear a collar, accept a spanking and/or impact experience, and engage in a variety of other kinky behaviors.


Participants will not physically engage in demonstrations with you.


It’s likely that they’ll direct you to remove some of your outer clothing at some point in the experience. Some level of nudity is an option, depending on your pre-agreed and in-the-moment comfort level. There will be no genital contact. Both TouchDeep and HeartBound will be fully dressed at all times.

It’s important that you be…

• a confirmed submissive comfortable with collars, leash and lead, rapid physical movement, light to medium S/M, and close physical contact.


• comfortable with being dominated by both men and women (or at least us!).


• comfortable and confident in a partial state of undress in front of a class.


• absolutely available for the scheduled class time.


• in integrity with your partner(s) around being a demo bottom for us.


• completely comfortable accessing your deep submissive self.


• completely comfortable with being blindfolded.


• completely comfortable with being gagged. We use a variety of gags in this class. You will be demonstrating the most challenging.


• completely comfortable with being in arm bondage.


• completely comfortable engaging in short demonstration scenes with TouchDeep and HeartBound.


• available to meet at a mutually agreed-upon time beforehand for a pre-class negotiation and mini-rehearsal.


• able and willing to communicate comfortably and in the moment using standard safe words of yellow and red.


• able to articulate your experience in front of a class when called upon to do so.


• in generally good health.


• if you’re a smoker, able to abstain for several hours prior to the class.


• at complete ease about doing this. Nobody but you should be making the choice to demo for us.


If you meet all of the qualifications above and are interested in or have questions about being our demo submissive for Delicious Deprivation, we look forward to hearing from you! Fill on the contact form on the bottom of the main page to let us know that you're interested, or respond to our DM on Fetlife.


Ready to go? Great! We'll be happy to walk you through the class and answer your questions! We use FaceTime, Skype, and Zoom for video conferencing. We will want to have a video conversation with you soon, well before the class.

We adhere to the Demo Bottom’s Bill of Rights that were developed by Sarah Sloane and Tristan Taormino.