BDSM and Kink Sexuality Classes for Conferences and Events
Since 2013, TouchDeep (he/him) and HeartBound (she/her) have brought their highly-engaging, authentic style of presenting to dozens of events across the United States.
They offer pretense-free, down-to-earth classes that are superbly organized, fully researched, and ultra-authentic.
They love what they do (and each other: they’re lifetime-committed polyamorous partners), and it shows in every way.
Their classes center around creating deep human connection, sensual touch, and exploring the sacred sexual completeness of the body/mind/spirit relationship (but without all of that “woo” talk!), all within the context of BDSM and kink.
The Classes
Close-In Impact Play
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Very entertaining and engaging class.”
“I’m going to use this info tonight in the dungeon.”
“…fascinating and insightful. I learned a lot about not only several really awesome techniques that can improve intimacy and provide better feedback during a scene, but it was excellent to have my eyes opened to a very different philosophy behind how to approach impact play.”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
Imagine an entirely new kind of impact play. impact play focused around deep human connection! Remarkably close to your partner. Sensuous. Hot. Delicious. You’ll learn to do it, step by step through the flow of a scene, from beginning to advanced level, using new techniques and a wide range of impact tools, including just your hands!
Create energy in your connection like never before. Transform your play forever.
No partner required to attend.
No late admission.
Interested in being our demo masochist for this class? See if you meet the requirements!
Delicious Deprivation
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Your presentation skills are some of the best I’ve ever seen for kink.”
“Great consent, boundary, and pronoun focus. Thank you! Great class.”
“Honestly, this is the best class I’ve ever been to.”
“Wonderful experience and presenters. The audience participation kept everyone engaged.”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
Sensory deprivation is hot and powerful! This hands-on class is an excursion into using deprivation of sight, hearing, speech, and touch to create deep, intense experiences.
Built around a B/D, D/s, S/M (and some other kinky things!) framework, there are tools, techniques, and hot demonstrations that integrate into every aspect of kink.
From beginning to intermediate level play, you can tap into the erotic power and heat of sensory deprivation to create incredible experiences in every kind of kinky play! And bonus! There are lots of opportunities throughout the workshop to get actual experience.
No partner required to attend.
No late admission.
Interested in being our demo bottom/submissive for this class? See if you meet the requirements!
Bare-Handed Scenes
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Excellent demonstration and class participation”
“Extremely polished and engaging performance”
“Wonderful presenters”
“Engaging, informative, entertaining.”
“Excellent class. I enjoyed it immensely. 10/10!”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
We’ll show you how to take your partner into deep, ecstatic experiences with just your hands and body! Starting with deep connection, you’ll see a wide variety of techniques ranging from soft and sensual to fast and hard! All of them will give you the ability to create exceptional, unforgettable, and deeply connected experiences for you and your partner. Includes the relevant anatomy, safety, and body mechanics for keeping your partner safe while creating the maximum effect.
This is the class that will change your approach to scenes! It’s so much more than impact!
This is an intermediate-advanced class.
No late admission.
No partner required to attend.
Interested in being our demo bottom/masochist for this class? See if you meet the requirements!
Creating Deep Connection For Play
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CLASS DESCRIPTION
You’ve negotiated a scene and you’re about to do something remarkably intimate with someone. Great! But mind-blowing, deeply satisfying scenes start with a strong connection to your partner. Making—and keeping—that connection requires deliberate, intentional action. It takes more than negotiation. Negotiation gets into our heads. Deep connection gets into our hearts. Do connection well, and you’ll be present to each other on a deep, intense level.
We’ll journey into the what and the why of getting in touch with your and your partner’s deepest needs and desires—those things that burn within you to be satisfied—and how to create emotional safety to speak them out loud; finding language to describe the needs, desires, and feelings that are at the heart of your sexual self; and the role of giving, receiving, and building trust to create transcendent, transformative, intentional experiences in BDSM play!
In this class you’re going to see and experience the physical, the emotional, and yes, even the spiritual techniques that can lead to deep, powerful play and intense, unbridled, primal experiences. The result? Everyone feels safe and secure; it’s a more compassionate, forgiving experience; intimacy happens; conscious thought is suspended; and play flows like a song!
Come with a partner or find one during the class.
No late admission.
Interested in being our demo bottom for this class? See if you meet the requirements!
Kneel For Me: Rituals for Dominance and Submission
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Fantastic large group engagement.”
“Very examples-based, which was super helpful.”
“Awesome class! Got my daddy and I thinking about more!”
“Very engaging, entertaining, informative!!!”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
We’re going to show you some fantastic D/s rituals with hot and spicy demonstrations, and we’re going to teach you how to create your own rituals, based on who you are, what you need and desire, and what you love. No matter your experience level in D/s, we’ll bring you ideas to make your play richer, deeper, and more meaningful. It’s everything you’ve always wanted (and needed!) to know about rituals for dominance and submission!
No partner required to attend.
No late admission.
Interested in being our demo submissive for this class? See if you meet the requirements!
Embracing Your Submissive Heart
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Loved your clear, organized, yet authentic and interactive presentation style. Did not feel “talked at” and enjoyed your response to others.”
“Strong group participation that felt very open and authentic.”
“My subby ‘lil heart feels so full and happy after this class!”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
This class is for everyone who wants to fully embrace and honor their authentic submissive self in its fullest depth and strength and have richer and more fulfilling experiences with their partners. We will broaden your understanding of submission and who you are as a submissive, and give you tools and techniques for taking more responsibility for yourself, doing effective self-care, and integrating your complete submissive self.
No partner required to attend.
No late admission.
Sensual Sadistic Massage Intensive
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Strong, clear, and entertaining presenters!”
“Every single thing/lesson was 100%.”
“Excellent pacing—show AND tell at the same time—lotsa content, practice. All one and a half hours were engaging.”
“This class, and yesterday’s Close-In Impact Play class, were both TOP NOTCH!”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
Love pain and pleasure wrapped together? So do we! This is an intensive, highly participatory class, including techniques, expert demonstrations, and lots of hands-on practice. We integrate sensual and sadistic massage to create an exquisite, exceptionally hot experience that will take your partner’s breath away!
Partners may each give and receive or may just give or receive, your choice, with step-by-step instructions and personal coaching.
This is the perfect class for sadists who want to learn new skills to bring something special to their masochists and for submissives who want to give their dominants the hottest massage ever!
This is an intermediate-advanced class.
Come with a partner or find one at the class.
No late admission.
Interested in being our demo masochist for this class? See if you meet the requirements!
Awakening Your Senses: Sublime Sensation Play
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Love the audience engagement.”
“Loved the grounding, presentation style, and content.”
“The energy you pour into your content and delivery is palpable, thank you.”
“Best presenters of the con.”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
Love touch and sensuality but not pain? This class is for you—as a giver, receiver, or both! Imagine getting lost in sensation the way you’ve always dreamed. Both of you completely immersed, dropping in deep.
We’ll combine sensations you love with new ideas and new tools. You’ll learn to create extraordinary scenes and build powerful energetic connections like never before.
No partner required to attend.
Deep Connection Massage Intensive
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Real practical advice I can use in many types of scenes”
“This was a fantastic intensive and the leaders were a pleasure to listen to and learn from 
“
“Wonderful presentation and genuine connection between the two teachers.”
“I would recommend this class to everyone”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
Imagine an immersive, four-hour journey into deep connection with your partner, wrapped around head, shoulder, hand, and foot massage! Therapeutic, sensual, devotional, playful—all practiced with intention—building trust, intimacy, and deep, emotionally- and energetically-connected pleasure!
In this hands-on intensive, you’ll learn how to combine practical massage techniques with the deep connection skills that transform touch into a magical experience! Our emphasis is on building confidence, sensitivity, and skilled, intentional touch.
Through demonstrations, guided exercises, and lots of partnered practice, this intensive will give you the techniques and connection practices you can begin to use right away.
We make giving and receiving massage a powerful tool for connection and pleasure, either on its own or integrated into your scenes!
Come with a partner (recommended!) or find one at the class.
No late admission.
Foot and Hand Massage Intensive
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Outstanding presenters, personable, funny.”
“Every single thing was beautiful. Deeply present and knowledgable.”
“Second time taking this class, this was still an awesome experience.”
“I came in looking to strengthen my service, but I left strengthening my intimacy muscle.”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
Love feet? So do we! This is a foot and hand intensive, partner-massage experience, including principles, techniques, when and where not to massage, expert demonstrations, and lots of hands-on practice. Learn how to massage some of the hardest working and most erotic parts of the body and do melt-into-the-floor massage in a dynamic, participatory class.
Everyone will give and receive massage (unless you and your partner decide not to switch. You do you!), with step-by-step instructions and personal coaching. This a great class for deepening your connection with your partner.
All of the massage in this class can be done fully clothed (okay, you might want to take off your shoes!), seated in a chair.
Come with a partner or find one at the class.
Interested in being our demo bottom for this class? See if you meet the requirements!
Head, Neck, and Shoulder Massage Intensive
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Highly recommended, practical skills!”
“Very appreciated. I enjoyed strengthening the bond with my partner through touch.”
“Great rapport with each other and the audience.”
“Very engaging, fantastic energy.”
“Excellent, would definitely take another class.”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
Want to have magic hands? This is a head, neck, and shoulders intensive partner-massage experience, including principles, techniques, when and where not to massage, expert demonstrations, and lots of hands-on practice. Learn how to massage stressed-out and sore muscles and do melt-into-the-floor massage in a dynamic, participatory class.
Everyone will give and receive massage (unless you and your partner decide not to switch. You do you!), with step-by-step instructions and personal coaching.
All of the massage in this class can be done fully clothed, seated in a chair.
Come with a partner or find one at the class.
Back and Butt Massage Intensive
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Love the energy and the easy to follow technique.”
“Engaging, fun, knowledgeable.”
“Very dynamic and demonstrative.”
“Wonderful communicators.”
“Love the energy and the easy to follow technique.”
“The whole presentation was great.”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
Everyone loves back massage! This is a delicious blend of a therapeutic and sensual back and butt intensive partner-massage experience, including principles, techniques, when and where not to massage, expert demonstrations, and lots of hands-on practice. Learn how to massage the hard-working muscles in our backs and butts and do melt-into-the-floor massage, therapeutically and sensually, in a dynamic, participatory class.
Everyone will give and receive massage, with step-by-step instructions and personal coaching. This is a perfect class for submissives who want to learn new skills to bring something special to their dominants.
Come with a partner or find one at the class.
No late admission.
Massage Lab: Hands-On Practice
CLASS DESCRIPTION
This is a great opportunity to focus on and improve your massage technique, in a dedicated environment, with experienced guidance close at hand!
This is a hands-on, all-practice massage experience, with TouchDeep and HeartBound available to answer your questions about massage principles and techniques, offer tips, and support you while you get lots of hands-on massage practice with a partner.
PREREQUISITE: Previous attendance at any of TouchDeep and HeartBound’s Massage Intensives: Foot and Hand; Head, Neck, and Shoulder; Back and Butt; or Sensual Sadistic, is preferred but not required for massage givers. (There is no prerequisite required for receivers.)
Limited enrollment.
Come with a partner or find one during the lab.
Becoming An Awesome Kink Presenter!
NEW!
CLASS DESCRIPTION
An in-depth Q&A with TouchDeep and HeartBound on creating and presenting great classes at kink events!
They’ll start with a fun and informative behind-the-scenes look at the methods and work flow that TouchDeep and HeartBound use to generate class topic ideas, outline and design classes, promote to event producers, work with demo people and audience volunteers, and actually present their classes at kink events.
Then the floor is open to your questions about any aspect of presenting, including choosing and developing your content, building a class structure, public speaking skills, how to build confidence in yourself, and dealing with the dreaded Imposter Syndrome.
This class is for you if you want to be a great presenter, or if you’re already presenting and want to strengthen your skills!
BDSM Exposed: A Hot Tour
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“Love the energy and the easy to follow technique.”
“Engaging, fun, knowledgeable.”
“Very dynamic and demonstrative.”
“Wonderful communicators.”
“Love the energy and the easy to follow technique.”
“The whole presentation was great.”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
Want to see and even try lots of different things – beginner or advanced – in a single class and safe, easy environment? This very hands-on class is a fun, fast-paced see-and-do through bondage, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism. You’ll get a realistic impression of how each thing is done and how it looks and feels.
There are lots of opportunities throughout the class to get actual experience with skilled leaders. (It’s okay to just watch, too!)
No partner required to attend.
This is a beginner-novice class.
No late admission.
Sensational Seated Sadism
NEW!
CLASS DESCRIPTION
Winston Churchill famously said, “Why stand when you can sit…” This class is all about following that advice, albeit in ways that Churchill might never have imagined!
Whether you identify as a top, bottom, sadist, masochist, dominant, or submissive, you’ll see the perfect tools and hot techniques we use for giving and receiving from a seated position.
No matter why you’d rather sit than stand, you’re going to love using what you learn in this class to create sensational seated play!
No partner required to attend.
No late admission.
Sexual Energy Intensive for Partners
Some of the Participants’ Comments:
“One of the hottest experiences. Ever.”
“It was an amazing time with my partner and we felt the energy throughout the weekend.”
“Loved it and cannot explain how awesome it was.”
“We haven’t stopped using the techniques since the weekend.”
CLASS DESCRIPTION
This very hands-on class is for everyone who wants to explore deeper intimacy with a partner. This is an ecstasy-focused, full-participation experience for partners. Drawing on the traditions and rituals that support the human inner journey, join us for this unique fusion of sacred touch, breathwork, tantra, energy work, and hot sex!
We will lead you and a partner through juicy experiences that integrate your physical, emotional, and spiritual energies into a deep and hot sacred sexual connection. You’ll come away able to bring new heat to your play and keep your partner’s sexual energy – and yours – simmering all day!
All of the work in this workshop can be done fully clothed (but often isn’t!), seated in a chair.
Come with a partner.
No late admission.